The role of parents has changed drastically over the years. In The Wide Wide World the role of parents is very traditional, in that the mom takes care of little Ellen and the dad provides for the family by going to work.
Susan Warner shows the huge role Mrs. Montgomery plays in Ellen’s life, from the very beginning of the story. Ellen loves her mom more than anything in the world. She trusts her so much. When Mrs. Montgomery asks how her daughter trusts her Ellen replies, “Why mamma,--in the first place, I trust every word you say—entirely—I know nothing could be truer; if you were to tell me black is white, mamma, I should think my eyes had been mistaken. Then everything you tell or advise me to do, I know it is right, perfectly.”
Captain Montgomery plays no role in his daughter’s life. She never sees him because he is always gone on business. I noticed from the start that Ellen does not even seem to care that she never sees her father, and also seems to see him as solely an authoritative figure, very different than her mother. “I’ll not go down till papa is gone,” she thought—“he’ll ask me what is the matter with my eyes.” She doesn’t worry about crying in front of her mom because she definitely cries to her mom and with her mom a lot!
Towards the end when Captain Montgomery goes to tell his wife the news of finding a ride for Ellen to Aunt Fortune’s house he shows no sympathy towards Mrs. Montgomery. Mrs. Montgomery, of course wants to wake Ellen immediately, but Mr. Montgomery demands that she stay asleep until the last moment possible. Mrs. Montgomery obeys her husband’s requests despite her strong opposition.
In this story it is clear that the male is the head of the household. The role of the mom is probably a little skewed in this particular story since Mrs. Montgomery is so ill, but we can still see that she is in charge of taking care of Ellen, and Captain Montgomery works and makes all decisions for the family.
